Instagram birçok kişinin motivasyonunu ve özgüvenini kırabilecek yorumlar yapan kişilerle dolu… Kendisine “Mr. Six-Pack’in eşi” diyen Jenna Kutcher, yorumlar ne olursa olsun özgüveninizi sağlam tutmanızı istiyor.
Jenna Kutcher bir fitness antrenörünün biraz kilolu ve kıvrımlı eşi.
He said, “Today I learned that starting a family isn’t going to be an easy journey for us.” I laid there in silence and closed my eyes. 🌊 Yesterday I cried at the pool. Tears snuck beneath my sunglasses as I realized that sometimes this journey straight up sucks. 🤦🏼♀️ I had this grand plan that once again, Hawaii would be our redemption song and as the reality of that dream slipped through my finger tips, I realized that I had tricked myself into believing that I could write a better story than my creator. ✨ It’s like I took a to-do list, crossed each item off and then handed the final to-do over to God and told him how I wanted this whole thing to go. I was ready to turn the page and write our next chapter! ✋🏻 I was reminded to surrender, to be able to ask for prayers, and to keep the hope that our time is coming soon. I’m believing in our miracle and this feed is my legacy. 🌊 Someday I hope our kids can read these posts and see this chapter in our story, this season of waiting was filled with faith, and that they had been prayed for and hoped for by thousands of strangers on the internet. ✨ We will keep waiting. Will you keep praying? Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
10 yıldır birlikte olan çift, daima bu görüntüye sahip olmuşlar.
Jenna çocukken jimnastik çalışmalarında bedeni ile ilgili sıkıntıların başladığını dile getiriyor.
Two major things are happening here right now that are worth sharing: ✨ 1️⃣ I’m celebrating the fact that this emoji (🌺) exists in real life and trying to become this one! 💃🏼 2️⃣ I’m praying that sticky bras do in fact stick and that they are boob sweat approved. 😂 ✨ Using only emojis below, tell me about your day! Ready? GO!
Birçok kilolu kişi gibi o da vücudunuz kabullenmekte uzun bir süre zorlanmış.
İlerleyen yaşlarında hayatına giren eşi Drew Kutcher ise Jenna’nın tam zıttı bir forma sahip.
Someone once slid into my DMs and told me they couldn’t believe I had managed to land a guy as good looking as @kickingitwithkutch. I’ll be honest that I was taken aback. ✨ Part of my insecurity with my body has stemmed around being married to Mr. 6-Pack himself. Why should I, a curvy girl get him? I feel unworthy and when I write narratives in my head that because I am not thin, I don’t deserve him. 🙋🏼 This man has embraced every curve, every dimple, pound and pimple for the last ten years and has always me reminded me that I’m beautiful even when my inner dialogue doesn’t match. 🙌🏻 So yes, my thighs kiss, my arms are big, and my bum is bumpy but there is just more of me for him to love and I chose the man that could handle alllll that (and so much more!) ✨ I am so much more than my body, so is he, and so are you. Double tap if true love doesn’t see size. Photo by: @mrslindseyroman
Fitness ile uğraşan Drew için Jenna Mr. Six-Pack diyor.
Drew’un, kendi özgüvenini kazanmasına inanılmaz bir desteği olduğunu dile getiren Jenna,
I vow to always travel the world with you and pack so much I have to sit on my suitcase and you pray TSA doesn’t open it. ✈️ I vow to be silly, to memorize each freckle on your face, to never take waking up next to you for granted, and to still grab your butt even when you’re old and wrinkly! 👴🏻 Double tap if that’s the kind of love you want! Photo: @janelle.sutton
Göbeğini, geniş kalçalarını, kollarındaki fazlalıklarını Drew’un önemsemediğini ve onu tüm gün pijamaları içinde “bakımsız” sayılabilen hallerinde bile güzel bulduğunu dile getiriyor. Bu, Jenna’nın kendine güvenini ve kendi güzelliğini keşfedebilmesi için güçlü bir destek olmuş.
Şimdi ise Jenna’nın bakış açısı, bir başka kişinin onayını beklemeden kendinizi sevebiliyor olmanızın güzelliği ile dolu!
Channeling the “less is more” Jenna and attempting to pack for 38 days in a carry on… capsule wardrobe anyone? 🙈 I mean, let’s just say there’s a lot of swimsuits, some sunnies, a pair of flip flops, and not much else. 👙 Wondering where I love to shop? I share that and a LOT of personal questions like: my faith testimony, how Drew proposed, who my hero is and more! 🥂 Yup, I did an episode on the @goaldiggerpodcast where I let YOU ask me anything! Tune in (using the link in my bio!) and post any questions you’re dying to ask below!
Jenna, Drew’un desteği için çok mutlu olsa da önce kendinizi sevip kendi hayatınıza odaklanmanızı ancak bu şekilde başkalarını ve diğer her şeyi hayatınıza katabileceğinizi söylüyor.
Geçtiğimiz günlerde ise Jenna instagram hesabında bir mesaj ile karşılaşmış.
Let’s play a little game called: 2 truths and a lie! You guys have to guess which one is the lie! ▫️ 1️⃣ I was kindly voted “most accident prone” in my high school. 2️⃣ I wore the same Minnesota Twins sweatshirt every day for 7th grade. 3️⃣ I have four tattoos on my body and got one on the day I turned 18. ▫️ You think you know me? Let’s find out! I wanna see what you guess! Comment below! I’ll reveal the answer tomorrow!👇🏼
Kendisine gelen instagram mesajında biri ona “nasıl olur da bu görüntünle Drew gibi birini elde edebiliyorsun” diye soruyormuş…
Başlangıçta epey sarsıcı olan bu mesajın ona ilk düşündürdükleri,
THE STORY OF US: We were driving home last night when midnight struck and we kissed for our 9th year of ringing in a new year together. In fact, we almost forgot that it was our anniversary (hilarious, I know!) 🤦🏼♀️ We actually started dating on a snowy, frigid New Years years ago after I road tripped six hours with my best friend to surprise “my friend” Drew and ring in the new year with him. That night we enjoyed (a lot of) champagne and he finally asked me to be his girlfriend! ** Insert: butterflies! 🥂 Truth be told, @kickingitwithkutch didn’t quite remember that conversation the next day… Insert: hanging up the phone on him, but I held him to the deal and we’ve been together ever since. It’s wild that we get to grow old, do life, work side by side, and wake up next to each other every single day. 👫 Happy dating anniversary, babe! Here’s to more champagne nights and lots of years trying to live up to the promises we’ve made to each other! 👋🏻 What’s a funny relationship story of yours? Tell me below! #reallife
Böyle bir vücutla nasıl böyle bir adama sahip olabileceği olmuş. Küçükken kendisine dayattığı kötü düşüncelerin bir anda tetiklendiğini hisseden Jenna silkilmesi gerektiğini fark etmiş.
Instagram’da ya da başka yerde daima karşınıza böyle yorumların gelebileceğini dile getiren Jenna,
That awkward moment when your dad says, “I saw you on Pinterest in your underpants.” #sorrydad 🙈 I’m just over here dancing into the new year like 🤷🏼♀️ and dropping 3 truths I learned about self love! ✨ 1️⃣ The scale does not define me. No, I didn’t lose those 20 lbs that I wanted to when I wrote my goals down at the start of last year but I did learn to love and respect every inch of this body. 2️⃣ You can’t put a label on a body: plus size, curve, real, thick, fat… you name it, I’ve been called it, but I’m just me and I live in a body that fluctuates, changes, and shouldn’t be given a title. 3️⃣ Self love is a straight up struggle and you don’t just suddenly wake up feeling good in your skin. It’s a choice, it’s acceptance, it’s simply showing up and coming home to yourself daily. 👋🏻 This year has been putting myself out there and showing up with my biggest insecurities and struggles. But y’all have stood by me and let me post about my journey in giving myself the love I so freely give others! 🙋🏼 Double tap if real will always trump retouched and if you’re on a mission to love yourself better in the new year!
Bunların hiçbir önemi olmadığını, sizin beden ölçülerinizin değil kendinizi nasıl hissettiğinizin ve gördüğünüzün önemli olduğunu söylüyor. Unutmayın: önce kendinizi sevin daha sonra etrafınızdakiler de sizi sevecek!